What If You Came Up With Reasons Why You Can?

As the spouse of someone who is constantly learning, growing and improving himself, I usually don’t get very far when I try to come up with reasons why I can't do something. Writing this article, for example. I am not a writer and have never claimed to be, so when I suggested this as an idea for a What If Wednesday article, I had no intention of actually writing it myself. But, as this title states, what if I came up with reasons why I could write it, or should write it, instead of reasons why I can’t.

So, here I am.

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There have actually been many times in our marriage that Ellory and I have encouraged each other to find motivations instead of focusing on limitations in certain situations. These discussions usually come up because of one thing. Fear.

I’m not talking about the fear you have when you walk into a haunted house, believe me that is a fear of mine that invokes a reaction no one should have to see. I am talking about the kind of fear that holds you back from being something great and from achieving something more.

When we let the fear of the unknown, and sometimes even the memories of the past, take us hostage, we let them control our lives. It is much easier to let fear, doubt and complacency take control of our minds than it is to move forward with courage and determination. The little voice in your head that tells you you can’t do something is usually much louder than the voice that tells you you can. I find this to be especially true if it is about something that is out of my comfort zone.

What if you decided to come up with reasons why you can or should do something instead of reasons why you can’t?

Instead of saying, “I can’t write a book because I don’t think a publishing company will back it,” say “I can publish my own book and create my own destiny.”

Instead of “I can’t exercise because I wouldn't know where to start,” say “I can get help from someone who does.”

In order to allow yourself to break out of the box, you have to be intentional. You have to develop ways to get to your dreams instead of focusing on things that will hold you back. (You gotta TWEET THAT!)

Use those close to you to help you expand on those goals and to encourage you on your journey. Don’t let the anxiety of failing hold you back. Don’t let the excuses creep in. Figure out how to make your dreams happen, because nothing will change if you don’t.

QUESTION: What are you making excuses for that is holding you back? I was vulnerable…now it’s your turn! Leave me a comment below by clicking here!